Narcissists often attract, and are attracted to, people who are natural peacekeepers. While the narcissist creates havoc in every situation, their partners are often the ones to smooth things over. Does this sound like you? If so, you are probably hoping you can use your skills at de-escalating conflict to manage an amicable divorce. Unfortunately, […]
Read More Ending a marriage to a narcissist can be a huge relief, but it is likely to be a rollercoaster until the divorce is final. Even then, the narcissist is likely to try to maintain control over you. Money is one of their favorite weapons. You must be proactive about protecting yourself financially if you are […]
Read More You do not have to be a trained psychiatrist to spot someone with narcissistic tendencies. Although we should leave the diagnosis to the professionals, identifying narcissistic tendencies in your spouse can help you learn to protect yourself. When your spouse has narcissistic behavior patterns, there could be trouble down the road. It can be almost […]
Read More When you divorce a narcissist, you are probably eager to put the drama and craziness behind you. If you have children together, that unfortunately may not be possible. Narcissists rarely change, so you will need to adapt to their behaviors and insulate your children to the extent you can. Only a small percentage of the […]
Read More Marriage to a narcissist can leave you feeling shamed, worthless, and disempowered. Even when you recognize that your spouse is abusive, you might feel that you deserve it or brought it on yourself. At the same time, you might blame yourself for allowing it and exposing your children to it. Beating yourself up will not […]
Read More It is tough to be married to a narcissist, but divorcing one is not easy either. Even when the narcissist wants the divorce, they are likely to make it as difficult for you as possible just to show they are in charge. Knowing what to expect when divorcing a narcissist can help you get through […]
Read More Divorcing a narcissist can mean months or even years of turmoil. The process can be shattering if you are not prepared. Working with an aggressive divorce lawyer who will stand up to the narcissist’s tactics is critical, but there are other ways you can protect yourself. Below are some tips to get through a divorce […]
Read More While there are plenty of narcissists out there, not all of them overly display the signs and symptoms of this personality disorder. These individuals might appear modest or shy initially, but behind that reasonable exterior is a person who is hypersensitive to criticism and lacks any empathy for other people. If you have discovered your […]
Read More Initiating a divorce can be difficult. Divorcing an abusive narcissist can feel impossible. Fortunately, there are healthy ways to address trauma and finally divorce an abuser. There are many resources available for survivors of abuse. If you need help, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233, log onto thehotline.org, or text LOVEIS to 22522. […]
Read More Dealing with a narcissistic ex can be a laborious and mentally exhausting task, especially during a high-conflict divorce. While you cannot control or reason with a narcissist, following the guidelines below may help put you at ease during the process of dissolving a marriage. Understand Who You’re Dealing With A narcissist can exhibit some or […]
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